Friday, October 27, 2006

Hiding

It's good to share your pain. It releases your own burden, and lets others around you know how to treat you. Not with sympathy, not by treating you as an invalid, but rather by allowing them to say the appropriate things, and to not say the inappropriate. If the people around you have an idea of what's going on inside of you, that inside of you may be more balanced, and may have more peace than if the people around you don't know what's going on.

Yet, many of us hide our pain. We do it on a habitual basis, a reflex action, probably arising from our desire not to let our surroundings change because of us, especially the happy ongoings. Some of us do it so often that all people see is our happy side, and they think we could never be really sad. Some of us do it so often that even our happy side is gone -- we simply hide everything. Our all inner and true feelings hidden, that other people only see the superficial side, the trivial side, and don't take us seriously. Those of us like this don't realise that because we are like that, many of our relationships are spoiled. How so? When people don't take you seriously, you start to blame, and start to think that no one truly understands you. There is a hurt in you that will never heal because the people cannot see it to heal it.

Remember, it is not time, but love that heals. Certain hurts go away after long periods of time, but it is really because of the amount of love that accumulates during this time. Some hurts can never go away fully, till you forgive, or are forgiven. Hurts will never be forgotten. Unless you lose your memory. Sometimes there is no right or wrong, just the need to make up.

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